“Then I thought about the night my father left. He came home and told my mother he’d been having an affair, and that he was leaving. I remember it being church quiet. It was an eerie, weighty silence I didn’t understand then.”
“We have a wonderful marriage. But we also have bad days where I dread the sound of his car pulling into the garage. When I’m really mad, I imagine what my life would look like as a single mom. This is normal. It’s OK.”
“Today we woke up happy. As I drove to work we were chatting and somehow one of us took something the wrong way. We barely spoke all day and then the same thing happened later in the afternoon.”
2) She probably sat in pee today. You can’t fix this. Just be aware.