“I felt an immediate uncontrollable sickness and stumbled to the bathroom where I noticed there was blood. I was toppling over and shouted to my husband there was blood and call an ambulance.”

‘I wanted to shake her, wake her up, start CPR – surely they could do something, she looks perfect, she could survive at 33 weeks. But it was too late.’

‘Please think about how you would feel. If your everything. Were no longer here. Please know that for some. This is the absolute most difficult time of the year.’
“Always offer us an invitation, even if we do not want to attend. Please know that we are not jealous of your joy. But that seeing others happy can be a devastating reminder.”

‘Don’t ever come home from work and ask her, ‘What have you been doing all day?”
“Because chances are you’d have nothing if she wasn’t right there with you. I know I wouldn’t.”

‘I miss my friends. I don’t know why we’ve drifted.’
“When I saw her pop up today I got really sad.”