Overcoming infidelity

‘I laid in my hotel room bath, sunk my head underwater, closed my eyes. I wondered what life would be without me in it? I cried.’: Woman stresses importance of mental health awareness after abusive relationships, suicidal thoughts

“He’d be on dating apps talking about the women he’d hooked up with the night before. I still loved him. I’d confront him. ‘Why do you do this?’ It would always escalate into a big argument. Our neighbors called the police to our house because of the noise.”

‘I found myself pregnant and alone, only a bag of possessions to my name. I spent months trying to love a baby that had the face of the person who ruined my life.’ Woman ‘destroyed’ by abusive man, finds ‘confidence’ traveling the world with baby in tow

“The biological father was someone I barely knew. He wanted to marry me, but I knew in my heart he was not the one. Over the next 7 months of pregnancy, he treated me badly and he treated me great. When I told his parents he was cheating on me with dozens of women, telling each of them he wished I was dead, they blamed me for his actions. The veil was lifted. I was being manipulated and abused on all fronts.”

‘I could sense a different tone in his voice. ‘Are you ok?,’ I asked. ‘It’s complicated.’ Panicked, I said, ‘We aren’t okay?’ He replied, ‘I don’t want to talk anymore.’ And the conversation ended.’

“I was so excited for my husband to get home from work that night. I decided to give him a call to see how far out he was. It was a conversation that would completely change my life. I couldn’t believe this was happening. I had no idea why it was happening.”

‘Am I speaking to Stefany?’ I tell her yes. “I’ve been having an affair with your husband for the past 18 months.’ ‘Ok’ I say.’: Woman discovers husband used ‘Ashley Madison’ dating service for affair

“My thought was that since I was wife #3, he certainly wouldn’t do anything as drastic as have an affair to screw up our relationship. I ask her how the two of them met and she says that’s the one thing she won’t tell me. For some unknown reason I blurt out ‘Ashley Madison?’ And she tells me yes, that’s how they met. I’m screaming my heart is beating a mile a minute, I’m sweating and I’m shaking.“

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