“We all know it takes two people to create another human, but females take the brunt of the hard and ugly things that come along with being a parent.”
- Love What Matters
- Family
- Adoption/Foster Care
“We all know it takes two people to create another human, but females take the brunt of the hard and ugly things that come along with being a parent.”
“I dreamed of him becoming part of our family. For her and her bio brother to be reunited someday.”
“My daughter slipped one day. She told me this woman was in our apartment and slept in the bed with daddy. I knew this is what needed to happen. I had a broken home and they deserved a better life.”
“I could not be more proud to hear him call me dad.”
“I experienced the stability and safe love I’d longed for years. And even though I tried to push it away, they never left me. My family was relentless in their commitment to loving me and helping me heal. No matter what I did – and I did a lot of things – they loved me.”
“Those frail little boys have learned to ride bikes, scooters, skateboards. Our commitment to them is as if I had given birth to them. There is no difference in our love for them.”
“We entered into the adoption of our daughter the way birth mom wanted – a fully closed adoption. She knew she could not safely care for her baby with the life she was living, but her heart was hurting. In my heart, I knew we needed a plan C.”
“Would he have a chance at a better life than the one I can give him?”
“I never realized that a mother is not interchangeable; you cannot just change a known mother with an unknown one.”
“She is leaving everything she grew to love. Everything she wanted her life to be. Everything we built. Carefully, I go into her bedroom. Everything is gone now; the toys, the clothes, the jewelry box with the little ballerina. I sit on the bed and recall the conversations, the questions, the hugs given. And slowly, through hot salty tears, I realize I am smiling.”