5 Reasons Stay-At-Home-Moms Deserve So Much Respect

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Iโ€™m a stay-at-home mom. No, that doesnโ€™t mean I eat Bon-bonโ€™s all dayโ€ฆ I donโ€™t even know what a Bon-bon is! My day is full of constant work actually. I fold clothes, wash fingerprint covered surfaces, prepare about five meals and fourteen snacks a day, and I rarely sit down. I get to break up fights between kids over super vital things like who gets to sit in the corner seat at dinner. I change diapers, kiss owies, sweep floors, and chase away bad dreams almost every single night. I can convince anyone to put pants on, share toys, or put down the toilet seat. Iโ€™m an expert negotiator. Iโ€™m a mom, hear me roar darn it!

This is the life of a stay-at-home mom. Our needs come last, our lists overflow daily, and our alone time ceases to exist anymore. We deserve respect, praise, and maybe a box of donuts every so often โ€“ to eat alone, in the bathtubโ€ฆJust saying.

Here are my top five reasons why stay-at-home momโ€™s deserve a bit more respect and recognition these days.

Weโ€™ve been peed on, thrown up on, and probably kicked in the face by our children at some point.

This is a sad, but true reality for all mothers. Our husbands think we must just have a stronger stomach than they do as they watch us scrub chunks off of the floor. The truth is that we want to gag too, but if we threw up, weโ€™d simply have more mess to clean up โ€“ so we suck it up. You should too husbandsโ€ฆ

The love we have for our children is fierce, but it doesnโ€™t protect us from things like the stomach flu or pink eye.

If my love for my children could protect me from illness, I would never get sick, but it doesnโ€™tโ€ฆ so I catch just about every cold or flu that seems to be going around my childrenโ€™s school. โ€œAt least you get to stay home when youโ€™re sick,โ€ you say. Yes I get to stay home, but instead of lying in bed trying to recover, I get to clean, cook, and change diapers โ€“ much better.

Sleep deprivation.

I never sleep anymore. The End.

When youโ€™re a stay-at-home mom, you never leave work.

My job is taking care of my kids, who I love by the way. It may sound like Iโ€™m complaining, but Iโ€™m not. I know how blessed I am and I love what I do. My point is the same though, I never leave work as a stay-at-home mom. So, if I need a lunch break, I take three kids with me to eat at a restaurant which doesnโ€™t quite have the same result. Crayons everywhereโ€ฆ

Everyone thinks since you chose to be home, that itโ€™s easy and you should never complain.

So, let me get this straight. Because I chose to be home and sacrifice extra money to be with my kids more, I donโ€™t deserve the same respect as a working mom? I respect other moms. I respect working moms, stay-at-home moms โ€“ heck, I respect moms in the animal kingdom. Have you ever seen a new dog mom nurse multiple puppies at once? Respect to you mama! Weโ€™re all moms and we all sacrifice in different ways. Itโ€™s time we stop competing and tearing each other down and just salute each other for our similarities, donโ€™t you think?

So the next time you hear of a new mom deciding to stay home instead of go back to work, do me a favor. Instead of scoffing behind her back, just show her some respect. The days are long, but the years are short, remember? We need to value every single day, and as stay-at-home momโ€™s, weโ€™re just trying to soak in every second โ€“ even the hard stuff.

Mom irons clothes while watching video on tablet while son sits behind her on the couch.
Courtesy of Maria Symchych Photos (via Canva)

This story was submitted toโ€ฏLove What Mattersโ€ฏ by Christi Cazin of Mama Needs More Coffee. You can follow her journey onโ€ฏ InstagramFacebookYouTube, and her website. You can also purchase her book on Amazon. Submit your own story here and be sure to subscribe to our free email newsletter for our best stories, and YouTube for our best videos.

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