“I am so proud of the young woman you have become. To know that you want to follow in even just a few of my footsteps is all I could ever ask for as your stepmom.”
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“I am so proud of the young woman you have become. To know that you want to follow in even just a few of my footsteps is all I could ever ask for as your stepmom.”
“The rest of the neighborhood is still sprinkled with jack-o-lanterns, but my walkway is lined with red and white-lit candy canes. Because this thing is happening with my kids. They’re getting bigger… fast.”
“The birth mother called. She was pregnant again and didn’t know what to do. ‘Would you consider adopting this baby?’ I almost fainted. I questioned it, but once I met Rosy’s sibling all my doubts and fears melted away.”
“This roller coaster of foster care is the craziest, most unusual ride I’ve ever done. But I cannot imagine doing anything differently.”
“When in doubt, send the card. Bereaved parents will always remember who acknowledged their child and their loss.”
“Eating a meal, while not surrounded by blood-related others can feel like a nice, much-needed break.”
“I did my best to blend in for years. I didn’t want to ruffle any feathers or damage the children in any way; I just wanted to be part of it! Until I didn’t anymore, and I had to redefine what my version of stepmotherhood looked like.”
“I did something this morning that most of you will probably think is bad parenting. But as she walked into school with a smile on her face, I thought, ‘This seems right. I want to do more of this.'”
“If you are the friend of someone who has lost a close loved one, I’m begging you to check in on them. Just because they’re able to ‘do life’ doesn’t mean they are magically healed.”
“Being adopted is hard and being Korean-American is hard, so having both of those experiences intersect can be confusing and painful at times. Now I’m a lot more open about the ups and downs of being adopted and the reality of being a racial minority.”