“Being so desperate to find an excuse to buy vodka at 6 a.m., I picked a fight with my boyfriend, just so I could leave. But by the time I got to the liquor store I was already in full withdrawal.”
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“Being so desperate to find an excuse to buy vodka at 6 a.m., I picked a fight with my boyfriend, just so I could leave. But by the time I got to the liquor store I was already in full withdrawal.”
Government and private organizations are not the only ones who can take action to stop modern slavery; everyone can do their part. We must work together.
“I stopped and realized that if I didn’t choose to take control of my life, I might take my life instead.”
“I thought I was a goner and my story was coming to an end. But I have someone to thank for the life I currently have. Without her, I would not be here to tell this story.”
“I initially set a goal of a 30-day break from alcohol. What I would discover in that 30 days would change my life forever.”
“Your existence matters. Your life matters. Your feelings matter.”
“I have learned to not run away from, but to go through the pain, to get to the other side.”
“My paternal grandparents sacrificed their retirement to step in as my caregivers. They never once made me feel like a burden.”
“They’d ask if I burned myself or bleached my skin. The ‘popular’ boys barked at me and called me a pit bull. I’d wear long-sleeved shirts to cover my arms, even in extreme heat while on the verge of passing out. I really, really wanted to fit in. But then I realized this is the only body I get, and I deserve to enjoy all that this life has to offer.”
Adoption is bittersweet, but the pain and trauma can be lessened when appropriate transition plans promoting connection and communication are in place.