“My heart nearly exploded. I started to cry and said, ‘Lets do it!’ I vowed to step up and parent a little boy, but truth is, he taught me more then I could ever teach him.”
- Love What Matters
- Trauma & Healing
“My heart nearly exploded. I started to cry and said, ‘Lets do it!’ I vowed to step up and parent a little boy, but truth is, he taught me more then I could ever teach him.”
“I am a black man. I am a police officer. I am ME.”
“He gets to come home every night and take it all off. He can walk away. Having that choice is a PRIVILEGE.”
“Racism is built on little assumptions and small biases that make people of color out to be ‘aggressive’ or ‘suspicious.’”
“No ticket, no explanation. They just assumed because I had a big black guy in my passenger seat, I was in danger.”
“This is not a political issue. It’s personal. You see, I have three Ahmauds who sleep under my roof every night.”
“Every so often, the officer would say, ‘It doesn’t seem like you knew him really well.’ I was getting so frustrated. Does it matter? Would that change things?”
“He’d tell me what girls he thought was hot, who he’d sleep with. He had no problem gawking at other girls in front of me. He said he felt unimportant and that I gave him no attention, even though my eyes were always on him and he had his attention elsewhere. I was convinced I was unloveable.”
“I never comment on anyone’s body because I know. You’re right. I have put on weight. She meant it as a compliment.”
“We’d been dealing with his bully on and off for 2 months to no avail. My eyes filled with tears. He hugged me even tighter. ‘I don’t want to see my bully ever again. I love being safe at home with you.’”