‘She’s 12 years old and has her first job. Four days a week. I don’t know about you, but I know for sure I wasn’t doing this.’: Mom proud of 12-year-old for first job, ‘There is not a sliver of my younger self in her’

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“I don’t know what you were doing when you were twelve, but I know for sure I wasn’t doing this.

When I was twelve, I was watching a lot of television and lounging poolside, feeling somewhat entitled.

When I was twelve, I complained a lot about being bored.

When I was twelve, I spent a lot of time looking at my clothes and worrying about how my new glasses looked.

When I was twelve, I spent a lot of time calling boys on Friday nights. Of course, I begged my friend to do the asking. ‘Just ask for Jason, but you can say you are me. Please??’

But she’s different. She’s twelve and she’s pedaling away from me and onward towards a big responsibility.

She’s twelve and has her first job.

A neighbor recently asked me if she’d be interested in tutoring her child during the week. Four days a week and she’d be paid for her time.

Four days a week.

My husband and I talked about it and felt like it would ultimately be her decision. She’d have to decide if she would be willing to give up some afternoon down time while also balancing her academics and after school sports.

It didn’t take her long to respond with a resounding, ‘YES!’

She’s twelve and was ready to take on her first job.

For the few days before she started, it was all we talked about.

‘Mom, how about using a cube game to help him with his sight words?’

‘I think I should bring some specialty lined paper for his writing.’

‘I definitely think I’ll incorporate games that we can play outside. You know, to break things up.’

‘I’m definitely going to ask prompting questions throughout his reading to help with comprehension.’

There is not a sliver of my twelve-year-old self in her.

Did I mention that she’s getting paid? She hasn’t mentioned it. Of course, she knows she will make money but that’s not why she wants to take the job.

It’s about way more than money.

We often think about raising our children to live beyond ourselves — finding their own way to be who they were meant to be. Having better experiences or better opportunities than we had.

I tell you what, if this is any indication of what the future holds, I could not be more excited and hopeful about where the next generation will take us.

Take the lead, my precious child. We will follow.”

Courtesy Melanie Forstall

This story was submitted to Love What Matters by Melanie Forstall, 45, of Baton Rouge, Louisiana. You can follow her journey on Instagram here and Facebook here. Do you have a similar experience? We’d like to hear your important journey. Submit your own story here. Be sure to subscribe to our free email newsletter for our best stories, and YouTube for our best videos.

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