“In the heaviness and darkness of it all, tears filled my eyes. I felt a weight lifted off my shoulders.”
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“In the heaviness and darkness of it all, tears filled my eyes. I felt a weight lifted off my shoulders.”
“I won’t remember the unease I felt about the messy house. I won’t remember the feelings of inadequacy trying to pass pajamas as clothing with dry shampoo hair. I won’t remember the judgement I felt about my toddler wearing hand-me-downs. But I’ll remember their charming, unconditional love that perfectly balanced the chaos.”
“He wanted the air horns blared, in the middle of the retirement village, and who were we to deny him?!”
“My top family’s letter was different from all the others. ‘Dear Friend, we wonder if these letters are as hard to read as they are to write.’ It was a way of showing me they recognize I’m still a person and not just a means of them getting a child.”
“I’ve had to do everything without you.”
“It’s okay to feel lost, alone, angry, sad, and confused. And you’re NEVER alone.”
“Even if you don’t understand it. Even if you secretly hate their movies or their music. Even if you think it’s silly or a waste of time. I promise you, it will mean so much to her. And when you’re gone, she’ll look back and realize just how lucky she was to have you.”
“I’ve seen trauma, tears, and sorrow on this path, but I’ve also seen beautiful scenery along the way. Without the bumps in the road, we wouldn’t cherish the good days like we do now.”
“Now I allow the other person an opportunity to hear a new perspective, gain a new depth of understanding, or judge me based on what little information they’ve amassed. Either way, I’m a mama to three girls, but one of them doesn’t live with me.”
“Grief is the most arduous race anyone will ever run. You can do this, and I’ll run by your side.”