“As soon as he found out, our pediatrician said, ‘Take your son Oliver to the oncologist, too.’ I felt like I’d been punched in the gut.”
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- Children
“As soon as he found out, our pediatrician said, ‘Take your son Oliver to the oncologist, too.’ I felt like I’d been punched in the gut.”
“Thoughts of a nice smooth pregnancy went out the window. My biggest fears were coming to life.”
“I cried every time I thought of him not being able to see my face. It was hard not to grieve the baby we once dreamed of.”
“12 years into this gig, I can confidently say parenting a child with a disability isn’t for the faint of heart.”
“My husband was over the moon. ‘Oh my god, our own team!’ I mourned being pregnant for a while.”
“We’ve been called the f-word in a Home Depot parking lot. We’ve had horrible and nasty DMs on social media. But our kids have two parents who love them DEARLY, and they’re better off for it.”
“Sometimes, I don’t want to worry about the drinks and the snacks and the sunscreen and the chairs and ‘Did you go potty?’ or ‘Make sure you bring a jacket!’ Sometimes I don’t want to make dinner. Again. Or load the dishes. Again. Sometimes, I’m not ‘cherishing every moment.’ I’m surviving.”
“Our kids are so much more than how the world measures them. We cannot measure their hearts and their souls…but oh, if we could, the beauty found there would bring us to our actual knees.”
“Shay had bright green stool no one in the hospital could figure out. ‘Her infant panel results came back. There is no cure.’ After hanging up, I broke down crying.”
“I expected fireworks. I might finally feel whole and love myself completely. Instead, I felt betrayed by myself.”