“I’m through with unnecessary excuses and apologies and rationalizations for the choices I believe are best for ME.”
- Love What Matters
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“I’m through with unnecessary excuses and apologies and rationalizations for the choices I believe are best for ME.”
“Once I became pregnant, I realized who my true friends were.”
“This little baby woke up a dormant side of me I had been too afraid to show to the world. I knew then that I couldn’t be the best mom to my child by living in fear. It was time for me to learn to live authentically.”
“The shoes my son lit up when he saw, was so careful to protect, and was so proud of, now didn’t feel right and were too hard to put on.”
“It broke me, but it wasn’t why I sat in my car and cried like a big fat baby.”
“I gulped back tears and explained it wasn’t medically possible. His reply would be my first lesson.”
“She is leaving everything she grew to love. Everything she wanted her life to be. Everything we built. Carefully, I go into her bedroom. Everything is gone now; the toys, the clothes, the jewelry box with the little ballerina. I sit on the bed and recall the conversations, the questions, the hugs given. And slowly, through hot salty tears, I realize I am smiling.”
“It doesn’t have to be a chore. The cleaning, the mundane daily master list… that’s the experience.”
“It didn’t hit me when my heart rate was at 40 bpm and the doctor called cardiology in a panic. Or when I was freezing cold in the summer heat. Or when I woke up at 3 a.m. every morning, dripping in sweat. I finally realized something was wrong when I stopped loving my dog.”
“When I became a mom, I was shocked by the amount of unsolicited advice I received. The mommy shaming train took off the second I got pregnant.”