“If these red flags resonate with you, it is time for your partner to get un-enmeshed with their parent.”
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“If these red flags resonate with you, it is time for your partner to get un-enmeshed with their parent.”
“He gave me this long, confused, why-would-a-grown-human-do-anything-they-didn’t-want-to-do look like he’d really found some hole in the plot of my life. ‘Because visiting this place isn’t about me. It’s about your mom, and I love her.'”
“Marriage is hard, but remember, love is in the details.”
“After 17 years of marriage, I’ve finally discovered the secret to marriage.”
“They don’t have to spend every paycheck on you, but they should spend their free time with you. They don’t have to bring you flowers every day, but they do have to encourage you to bloom.”
“Of all the investments I’ve made, my marriage is the one I value most.”
“The one thing we never lost during all those hard years was our love for each other. We just now know that love is not enough.”
“I used to be with someone who justified every action of violence as love for me. Someone who justified the crazy behaviors and outrageous outbursts in public as love for me. I was embarrassed and humiliated 98% of the time. And I must say, that type of love was dangerous. That type of love was toxic.”
“I don’t want hundreds of dollars spent on materialistic things. I don’t have to have my face and name all over my husband’s social media. I don’t want the Hallmark idea of marriage. I want our perfect.”
“It’s understanding just because you love each other doesn’t always mean you’ll like each other.”