Rebecca Balfe is a former editor for Love What Matters. She resides in NYC, owning and rescuing adorable cats. She is an avid Lupus fighter and advocate.

Rebecca Balfe is a former editor for Love What Matters. She resides in NYC, owning and rescuing adorable cats. She is an avid Lupus fighter and advocate.
“You deserve to be heard, at the bare MINIMUM.”
“They were taking his device and hiding it, and when the teacher wasn’t looking, they’d push him down. I was floored.”
“’Goodnight. LOVE YOU.’ A faint ‘love you’ left my mom’s lips back to me.”
“I woke up in a white room by myself. ‘A few minutes later, you’d be dead.’ I looked down at my stomach and was very confused about the ladder-like line of staples holding my entire abdomen together.”
“I know a woman who is pregnant and her ideal home is with a gay couple. Would you be interested?’ Our mouths dropped. It almost felt like a joke.”
“My dad told me, ‘I tried to bring you a birthday cake EVERY YEAR.’ I decided I didn’t want to miss any more time without him.”
“My partner jokingly proposed to me by drawing an opal ring on my finger. It was the universe telling me I made the right choice.”
“They treat us like it’s contagious. But being trans is such a GORGEOUS thing.”
“Learn what you don’t know, and use the resources trans people make and share.”
“We often wonder what people think our relationship is, because let’s face it, who doesn’t play the ‘What’s Their Story’ game? The wedding rings don’t seem to give it away anymore.”