5 Tips on Advocating for Yourself as a Chronically Ill Patient
1. Educate Yourself
Do your research. Knowledge is power! It allows you to participate in much needed conversations about treatments, medications, diagnoses, etc.
2. Create a List of Talking Points You Want to Hit During Your Appointment
It’s easy to forget certain questions when you’re at the doctor’s office. I prefer a physical list made of pen and paper, rather than a list in my phone notes. (But to each their own!)
3. Be Honest
As chronically ill humans, we are good at swallowing our pain and pretending we are okay…don’t do this. Open up. Tell them the truth. How is your physical health, REALLY? How is your mental health, REALLY?
4. Bring Someone With You to Appointments If You Can
Many of us have fallen victim to medical gaslighting; in my experience, doctors are less likely to do this if someone else is in the room (that’s not to say it doesn’t still happen, but it might help).
5. If You Don’t Get What You Need From Your Doctor, Find a Second Opinion
You deserve to be heard, at the bare minimum.
I hope this little guide can help you navigate self-advocacy; it’s tricky and can be exhausting. But it’s a necessary skill to learn in our world.
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