“I worked my last shift in NYC today. Tomorrow, I will pack my things and get my room cleaned and fly out Monday morning. The devastation I’ve witnessed here is not something I can adequately put into words.
I’ve FaceTimed a patient’s family so they could say goodbye. In 20 days, I’ve put over 40 people in body bags to be put into a refrigerated truck because the morgue does not have enough space. I’ve seen one patient fully recover.
Sure, I am in a ‘hotspot’ and was working in an ICU, so the patients there are sicker, but it didn’t change the fact that this virus did not discriminate. I saw healthy, young people die just as often as I saw elderly, sick people die.
I wasn’t going to share this picture with the world. It was sent from a coworker who took it after I’d lost 3 patients in one shift a little over a week ago. I was sitting on a dirty mattress on the floor of our break room weeping, covered in 3 layers of PPE.
These people died alone. Their families were given a FaceTime goodbye, which to me, felt cheap. I didn’t know how to apologize for not being enough. For our medicine not being enough. For everything we’ve done is not enough.
How do you apologize for this? I know it’s not my fault. I know I could not prevent this. But it is nonetheless devastating, and you leave feeling so inadequate.
The numbers are getting better. There is healing happening, but I won’t be here to see it.
I leave you with this: I understand economic devastation. I understand the fear of not being able to provide for your family. But I also have had to allow FaceTime goodbyes and held the hands of people who just couldn’t fight this off. I would rather beg for food every day than ever have to be on the other end of that FaceTime call. So please be safe and cautious.
I am not a hero. I am a nurse. This is what we’re made to do. I fully believe that God places us on this earth to love and serve others, and I am so grateful I was able to serve in this capacity.
Thank you all so much for loving me and praying for me through this assignment. I look forward to my quarantine days and I am thankful I get to have them! Sweet home Alabama, I am coming for you!”
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